Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Turning Controversy into Church Ministry: A Christlike Response to Homosexuality
by William P. Campbell

Contentious debate about homosexuality too often takes the place of actually caring for the needs of people who experience same-sex attraction. This book provides clear scriptural and scientific insight, sound logic, and practical advice to help Christians turn churches into centers of ministry related to the divisive issue of homosexuality.

Hi, actually I am reviewing chapter’s 14-16 and comparing them to what I wish I had at my disposal, when I was in my twenties. I am now 71 and have carried these desires since I was 13. This probably more of a comparison of what I wished would have been available 50 years ago and what I have experienced as a struggler. Who by the way is a neophyte for blogging and also lousy and composition, I leave that to you writers. I must add the Pastor Campbell did an excellent job on the book now all I pray is that pastors see, read and put into practice in real life. If the habit is exposed it will be easier to find freedom.

In chapter 14, I see the need for openness and honesty in joining together with a strong believer in faith helping each other in overcoming our sins. Even though I have several close friends over my 71 years I can say I have not had someone I could spill my every thought with and still be accepted, I have a few I told my desires but only to a certain point.

Along this same line I could easily see myself falling into the temptation mentioned on this chapter so I agree that we need to exercise caution when the friendship becomes too close. I also agree that 100% change is most likely not going to happen but rather learning; how to stay focused on servant hood and healthy activities.

In chapter 15, A stronger or more active role from the church would be a big help in the recovery, generally I have just recently been experiencing any form of support from the church. In the small group setting. I feel the leader of a small group should be one who is trained on this subject and or one who has found freedom this desire. I further agree it should not be mixed sex group and if the group is large enough break it down by age but stay focused on sexual habits. It also is more than a few months but rather an ongoing small group until a sufficient healing has been accomplished.


In chapter 16, I feel we need more adult men and women stepping forward to facilitate the small group’s set-up by the church helping those that are hurting heal and then take on the leadership of the group. I also feel that those older or the men and women who had dealt with these feeling go more public and there by encouraging those that are still hurting and carrying these undesired feelings. Exposure will ultimately bring healing. I also feel the family needs to be brought into the healing process when the proper time arrives.

So all in all I fell W, P. Campbell has done and excellent job on his study, book, and recommendations for these unwanted desires, I also feel it’s past time the church step up to the plate and help men, women, teens, and families dealing alone with this problem. We need to encourage the men, women and teens who have these unwanted desires to seek help but only after that help is there to offer it. It’s past time the start these groups, open the discussion and offer help.

John